Tuesday, 20 November 2007

Reuters: Afghan boy dancers sexually abused by former warlords

Reuters: Afghan boy dancers sexually abused by former warlords
Sun Nov 18, 2007 11:08pm EST

PUL-E KHUMRI, Afghanistan (Reuters) - They are known as "bacha bereesh", boys without beards, teenage boys who dress up as girls and dance for male patrons at parties in northern Afghanistan.

It's an age old practice that has led to some of the boy dancers being turned into sex slaves by wealthy and powerful patrons, often former warlords, who dress the boys up as girls, shower them with gifts and keep them as "mistresses".

Afghan police are battling to crackdown on the practice which has angered Islamic clerics who say those involved should be stoned for sodomy, forbidden under Islamic law.

In a society where the sexes are strictly segregated, it is common for men to dance for other men at weddings in Afghanistan.

But in northern Afghanistan, former warlords and mujahideen commanders have taken that a step further with competitions for their dancing boys.

"Every boy tries to be the first. They are dressed in women's clothes, have bells on their feet and have artificial breasts," said Mohammad Yawar, a former mujahideen fighter against the Taliban and resident of the northern town of Pul-e Khumri.

The practice, called "bacha bazi" -- literally "boy play" -- has a long history in northern Afghanistan, but sometimes it does not stop with just dancing.

"I very much enjoy hugging a boy. His smell and fragrance kills me," said Yawar.

The 38-year-old businessman said he recruited a 15-year-old boy three years ago to help him with his work.

"I have had him for at least three years, since he was only 15. He was looking for a job and I gave him somewhere to stay," said Yawar, showing the boy's picture.

"I don't have a wife. He is like my wife. I dress him in women's clothes and have him sleep beside me. I enjoy him and he is my everything," he said, kissing the photograph.

MARK OF PRESTIGE

Having the best-looking boy and the best dancer is a mark of prestige.

"Everyone tries to have the best, most handsome and good-looking boy," said a former mujahideen commander, who declined to be named.

"Sometimes we gather and make our boys dance and whoever wins, his boy will be the best boy."

Former mujahideen commanders hold such parties in and around Pul-e Khumri about once a week.

"Having a boy has become a custom for us. Whoever wants to show off, should have a boy," said Enayatullah, a 42-year-old landowner in Baghlan province.

"I was married to a woman 20 years ago, she left me because of my boy," he said. "I was playing with my boy every night and was away from home, eventually my wife decided to leave me. I am happy with my decision, because I am used to sleeping and entertaining with my young boy."

The men say they lavish money and gifts on their boys.

"I was only 14-years-old when a former Uzbek commander forced me to have sex with him," said Shir Mohammad in Sar-e Pol province. "Later, I quit my family and became his secretary. I have been with him for 10 years, I am now grown up, but he still loves me and I sleep with him."

Ahmad Jawad, aged 17, has been with a wealthy landowner for the past two years.

"I am used to it. I love my lord. I love to dance and act like a woman and play with my owner," he said.

Asked what he would do when he got older, he said: "Once I grow up, I will be an owner and I will have my own boys."

But Shir Mohammad, at 24, was already getting too old to be a dancing boy. "I am grown up now and do not have the beauty of former years. So, I proposed to marry my lord's daughter and he has agreed to it."

POVERTY

Many local residents have called for a crackdown, but are skeptical it will work as many of the men are powerful and well-armed former commanders.

Jahan Shah, who lives in Pul-e Khumri, said government and security officials should take tough action against unIslamic and immoral acts.

"If they don't stop this, it will become a custom and hundreds of other boys will be involved in it," he said.

Police and security officials in northern Afghanistan say they have been doing their best to arrest the men involved.

"It is sad to state that this practice that includes making boys dance, sexual abuse and sometimes even selling boys, has been going on for years," said General Asadollah Amarkhil, the security chief of Kunduz province.

"We have taken steps to stop it to the extent that we are able," he said.

Amarkhil said poverty, widespread in Afghanistan after nearly three decades of war, forced teenage boys into compliance.

"We have taken very strict measures to save the lives of the boys and punish the men," he said. "We are monitoring to find out where these men and boys gather, then go there and arrest them."

Those found guilty of abuse would be jailed for at least 15 years, said Baghlan chief prosecutor Hafizullah Khaliqyar.

"We have 25 cases of such immoral acts. They are being processed and we are trying our utmost to tackle the problem," he said.

Islamic scholars recommended harsher punishment.

"Those who do this are the devil," said Mawlawi Mohammad Sadiq Sadiqyar, a scholar and prayer leader in the main northern city of Mazar-i-Sharif. "Under Islamic law, those who practice this should be stoned to death."

But some of the men say they are not interested in women.

"We know it is immoral and unIslamic, but how can we quit? We do not like women, we just want boys," said Chaman Gul, aged 35 of Takhar province.

O_o

So, you take away contact with women, and all they do is move on to the next best thing. There's no getting around it, is there?

Miscellaneous News Items

Last Updated: Monday, 19 November 2007, 11:02 GMT
BBC: Kittens 'adopted' by pet rabbit

Six abandoned kittens have found an unexpected new mother figure - a pet rabbit.

Veterinary nurse Melanie Humble took the three-week-old kittens to her Aberdeen home.

The kittens seemed to think Summer the rabbit was their mother and began to climb all over her and try to feed from her.

Efforts will be made to find the four males and two females permanent homes in the
coming weeks.

Melanie, 29, told the BBC Scotland news website: "The abandoned kittens were handed in when they were about three weeks old and I took them home.

"Summer the rabbit was taken inside on Bonfire Night because of the fireworks and the kittens seemed to really like her and thought she was their mother."

'She's gigantic'

She added: "They were trying to get milk from her and climbing over her. And Summer was not bothered by them at all.

"Summer is five months old and she's gigantic. It is lovely to see them all together.

"They are all doing well and Cats Protection will re-home them."


Aww so cute!

by Joshua Topolsky

Finally, someone has had the kindness to step in and solve the age-old problem of finding your car at the airport. Britain's Heathrow -- a major hub for scores of European airlines and their travelers -- is about to unleash a new wing known as Terminal 5, and as part of the package, its parking lot is getting an upgrade. A new automated system in the garage will snap a photo of your license plate as you head in, direct you to a space using illuminated arrows and an infrared camera tracking system, then issue a ticket which can be read at a kiosk when you get back. When you insert the stub into the reader, a digital display shows you a 3D map of the carpark, and points you to the exact location of your vehicle. According to planners, the project will reduce traffic, cut carbon emissions by 397 tons per year, and will halve the number of relationship-ending arguments that occur while trying to find a car.

Cool.

BEIJING (Reuters) - A Chinese anti-virus company has warned against free downloads of Ang Lee's steamy spy thriller, "Lust, Caution", saying several hundred sites offering the service were embedded with viruses.

And Chinese doctors have warned moviegoers not to try some of the more ambitious sexual positions featured in the uncut version of the film.

The movie has been a big hit in China, reaping 90 million yuan ($12.12 million) in its first two weeks, despite losing seven minutes to the censors, and has been tipped by some to be the year's biggest box office success.

"People should be wary of Web sites that offer free downloading services because their personal passwords can be stolen," Li Ting, of Rising International Software Co. Ltd., told Reuters.

She said several hundred Web sites promoting "Lust, Caution" were embedded with viruses and 15 percent of download links were contaminated.

"Hackers are taking advantage of popular entertainment hotspots for movies and music to attack personal computers and spread viruses," she said.

An engineer with the company was first to encounter the virus last week -- his screen went blank and he lost his instant messaging password.

Set in World War Two Shanghai, "Lust, Caution," features long and sometimes violent sex scenes that director Lee has hinted were real.

Lee, who won the best director Oscar in 2005 for his controversial gay cowboy drama "Brokeback Mountain", personally cut on-screen sex and other scenes in "Lust Caution" to allow it to pass Chinese censors and screen on the mainland.

The cuts, however, prompted a flood of Chinese moviegoers in southern China to cross the border into Hong Kong to see the full version.

Chinese doctors warned moviegoers not to try some of the more acrobatic positions featured in the uncut movie, according to a report posted on Xinhuanet (www.xinhuanet.com), a news portal for the official Xinhua news agency.

"Most of the sexual maneuvers in 'Lust, Caution' are in abnormal body positions," the report quoted Yu Zao, a deputy director at a women's hospital in southern Guangdong province, as saying.

"Only women with comparatively flexible bodies that have gymnastics or yoga experience are able to perform them. For average people to blindly copy them could lead to unnecessary physical harm," Yu said.

"Lust, Caution" won the Venice Film Festival's top award, the Golden Lion, earlier this year.

($1=7.427 Yuan)

(Reporting by Beijing newsroom; editing by Nick Macfie)

Fun.

Monday, 19 November 2007

Customer Service Review: Malaysian Paintball Academy

Business: Paintball training and services
Location: Kompleks Sukan Astaka, Petaling Jaya
Website: N/A

The situation:

My uncle wanted to try out his new paintball gun on live, moving targets that weren't squirrels, so we all piled into his 4x4 and drove up to Kompleks Sukan Astaka for a morning's session. He'd booked some playing time the day before.

The happening:

One of the staff members greeted us quite warmly for 10am on a Sunday morning (only crazies are friendly at that time, if you ask me), and promptly asked as what we needed in terms of equipment and what package we were looking for. He provided us a quick rundown of the packages and recommended one for us, which we took.

A trainer then popped up out of nowhere, all decked out in full paintball gear, meaning the padded shirts and pants complete with rambo-style bandannas with Gucci logos all over it. He explained the safety precautions, and then gave us an extensive run-through of how to play paintball, complete with tips on how to hide and shoot for best effect.

After some testing of the guns, we discovered that crazy old man's (i.e. my uncle) personal paintball gun wasn't working properly, and after some time a cousin decided to wake up and show up, meaning we tested the staff's ability to respond to surprises quite a bit. They responded well, promptly bringing up guns and pellets from nowhere. I swear, it's like a magic show.

The staff also facilitated the big playing field quite smoothly, allowing us to play, and then allowing other teams to play while we rested. It was pretty good. All in all, their customer service was off the charts. Friendly, prompt and uncomplaining. What more could you ask for?


The verdict: Awesome.

Are you ready?

"In my country, the less dark side is the lesser of two evils. As far as political parties go, those are the only choices we have. One evil is the hardcore Muslim political party which will force me to be everything that I'm not. And I mean force. The other evil is the croney-ist, no-more-corrupt-than-other-regimes-in-the-area-and-does-stupid-things-but-still-has-good-economic-sense regime." -Anastasia Beaverhausen.

Are you ready for it?

Monday November 19, 2007
The Star: Pak Lah: I will determine when to dissolve Parliament

KUALA TERENGGANU: Datuk Seri Abdullah Ahmad Badawi said the power to dissolve Parliament is exclusively his.

The Prime Minister said it was not possible for Election Commission chairman Tan Sri Abdul Rashid Abdul Rahman to know when the next general election would take place.

“How would he know? I have yet to dissolve Parliament to pave the way for the elections. It's I who will decide when to have Parliament dissolved,” he said at a press conference after his visit to the Islamic Civilisation Park in Pulau Wan Man here yesterday.

He was commenting on the recent indication by Abdul Rashid that he knew when the general election would take place but was not at liberty to divulge the information.

Abdullah said it was not necessary to be too concerned about when the elections would be held.

“You have to wait,” he said.

Nevertheless, he said the Barisan Nasional election machinery was prepared for the polls, which could be called at anytime.

He said he was satisfied with the overall performance of Barisan MPs and state assemblymen.

However, he said there were some assemblymen who are non-performers but declined to elaborate whether they would be dropped from contesting in the polls.

“Some have performed well, some are weak. That's the scenario,” he added.

On the claim by certain quarters that the Yang di-Pertuan Agong had condoned the
illegal rally held in Kuala Lumpur on Nov 10, Abdullah said: “It is a desperate move by certain quarters to create an issue thinking that the election is close.”

Abdullah went on a day-long visit to Terengganu where he earlier launched Sutratani, an agriculture project in Setiu, and witnessed the signing of a Memorandum of Understanding (MoU) at the state animation centre in Paya Keladi.

In Setiu, Abdullah called on Malaysians to discard any feeling of low self-esteem that could impede personal development. He said people also should stop thinking that there were tasks that were impossible and hard to achieve.

Abdullah also challenged Terengganu Mentri Besar Datuk Seri Idris Jusoh to find the right solution to elevate fishermen from poverty.

2007/11/04
NST: Election, contracts, the kris, NEP and all
By : Zainuddin Ayip, Kadir Dikoh and P. Selvarani

Umno deputy president Datuk Seri Najib Razak says it’s best if there is an image of greater cohesion among BN leaders. Umno deputy president Datuk Seri Najib Razak talks to ZAINUDDIN AYIP, KADIR DIKOH and P. SELVARANI about this week's general assembly.

Q: What’s the significance of this year’s Umno general assembly which could be the last one before the general election is called?

A: The Umno general assembly will be a historic event this year as it is being held in conjunction with our 50th Merdeka anniversary celebrations. The spirit of the celebrations and the pride we feel for all our patriots who sacrificed and fought for independence, for Umno’s struggle in fighting the Malayan Union and in forging a multi-racial country will be felt at the assembly. The assembly will also be significant politically. We regard it as an important time for us to further enhance co-operation and commitment at all levels in Umno, in preparation for the general election. The assembly will focus on consolidating the party and getting our leaders ready, making sure they convey Umno’s and the government’s message to the people, including the new initiatives launched by the prime minister, such as the regional development corridors.

The development initiatives will draw the attention of the delegates, especially on how they can contribute to making them successful.

The assembly also may be aimed at an Umno and Malay audience, but we must be sensitive and make sure the proceedings reflect the spirit and our commitment to the Barisan Nasional’s principle of camaraderie.

Q: What are the “hot” issues that would be debated?

A: I don’t think there will be anything “hot", but there are some topics that may attract the attention of the delegates, which have been highlighted in the newspapers, such as crime, social problems, the increasing prices of goods, education, and how we are going to ensure the success of the regional development corridors within the context of the Malay agenda.

Q: There are still those who consider that Umno’s focus on the Malay agenda means that Malays are still lagging, lazy and difficult to change.

A: To change from a certain culture and style of thinking takes time. We have achieved success, especially in reforming government-linked companies (GLCs). This shows that the Malays and Bumiputeras have the ability to engage and succeed in major business enterprises.

The success of Permodalan Nasional Berhad and Petronas, among others, can be considered a success in terms of proving our leadership skills.

What is not yet achieved is producing a Bumiputera Industrial and Commercial Community (BICC). The number of successful entrepreneurs is still small. We have a long way to go, but the goal is not impossible to achieve. We must also explain that if we talk about the Malay agenda and a continuation of the (spirit of) New Economic Policy, it does not mean that we are only helping the Malays or Bumiputeras. We view it as a national agenda. If we achieve fair and balanced development, all races will be able to share the economic cake, and this would be good for the country in terms of national unity. Many are quick to belittle us when we talk about the NEP or the Malay agenda, as if this is to help the Malays or a specific group only. We must explain the situation to them clearly.

Q: It is a fact that the Malays today still largely rely on and hope for government assistance.

A: This is because we have not yet created a BICC. Once we have a BICC, they can be independent and will have a solid network, including with other races. Then, they would no longer need government help. At present, the Malays will not be able to become successful entrepreneurs without the government’s help.

Q: There has been much effort to help the Malays, but why is the number of Malay entrepreneurs still small?

A: Cultural transformation takes time. Even if we give them the relevant opportunities, it would not amount to much if they stick to the old culture or misuse the opportunities due to a negative attitude. We have to take a holistic approach if we want to be economically successful. We cannot just focus on providing more opportunities. The government must also look at inculcating a more competitive and forward thinking culture among the Malays. We must try to emphasise merit when considering the award of contracts or business opportunities. We must award these to the best among the Malays so that they will continue to be more competitive and successful. The Malays must practise meritocracy, the principle of “know how", not “know who".

Q: There have been instances of Umno figures getting upset when they do not obtain these opportunities.

A: I am aware of this. It’s a political reality. For example, a division leader may have his needs and we cannot overlook these altogether. In general though, the principle of meritocracy must be applied. We must also guide Bumiputera companies that are
about to be listed in the near future. Once listed, they would be able to be more independent. We are in the process of identifying these companies.

Q: But there are still very few listed Bumiputera companies.

A: There are not many. That is why we must look into the methodology and new approaches in a changing environment. Ours is not a closed environment but one that is open as a result of globalisation and liberalisation. The Malays must adapt to this.

Q: How do you view the commitment of the younger generation of Umno members, as there would be those who joined the party mainly for personal interests?

A: We must ask ourselves why we are in Umno, what is our contribution to the party, not the other way around. We must adopt good practices and values in our struggle. When we choose to do this, we will be successful in our cause and the people will have more respect for Umno. Our challenge is to defend Umno’s continuity. When we pass the torch to the next generation, they must be able to continue running with the torch.

Q: How is the process of grooming new leaders in Umno going?

A: I remember even from the time of my late father (second prime minister Tun Abdul Razak Hussein), how several young leaders and professionals were co-opted into the government and appointed as parliamentary secretaries and deputy ministers.

The process had begun even then... it’s ongoing, and we are today working with grooming second and third generation Umno members. I am part of the second generation. My generation now has to groom the third generation, and we need to mould and nurture these people to be future leaders.

Q: The problem in Umno is that some veteran members do not want to make way and insist on holding on to their positions.

A: That is the political reality... so we have to know how to carry ourselves as leaders. If we can do this, God willing, we will succeed.

Q: There are also some young leaders who want to run even before they can crawl.

A: That’s why I say we have to understand the political reality. We must know how
to carry ourselves. We must also have wisdom. Although we may be younger, it does not necessarily mean we should only think like a youngster. We must have maturity in how we think and the way we act.

And not all young people will succeed. Even from back then, there were those who did not. Those who did had a certain quality.

Q: Looking at how some delegates may use the assembly as a platform to lobby and campaign for seats, what are the considerations when selecting Umno’s general election candidates?

A: I don’t think they can (lobby for candidacy), because the delegates who will speak at the assembly are chosen from the state liaison committees. It is not as if whoever aspires to be a candidate can take to the stage and address the assembly.

Secondly, all speakers selected represent the views of their state Umno. They cannot claim that they are the best. They must understand that they’re there due to the trust placed in them by the state Umno to express its views at the assembly. However, on the sidelines during the course of the three-day assembly when they have the opportunity to meet leaders, then maybe that is when they will try to lobby. The political reality is that sometimes they have to show that they are interested in being considered. Otherwise, people will say that they are not. So they try to show they are interested, but in a subtle way.

Q: What are the qualities required in general election candidates?

A: Ability, and being accepted not only by the party but also by the voters. We must consider whether one is acceptable in that area. You can be a good orator but if people don’t like you and don’t accept you, then you can’t be a candidate. . Voters get very angry if we try to impose a candidate on them.

We must also know the people’s needs, their sensitivities and the conditions in a particular constituency. We also consider things like whether the candidate should come from Wanita Umno and so on. But the bottom line is that our candidate must be someone who will be accepted in the area and who can win.

There is no point putting up a candidate who is unelectable. We must always put winnable candidates. That is the bottom line.

Q: In the past, it has been said that you could field any candidate and he or she would win as long as the person ran under the BN ticket.

A: Those days are gone because another important factor is the personality of the candidate. The candidate’s personality can be a plus for Barisan Nasional. Some of them, by virtue of their personality, have that additional strength in that particular area. But if you put someone else from the same party, the result might be different. In other words, both the party and personality of the candidate count. But above all, the person must be a winnable candidate.

Q: What about the distribution of seats between the BN parties?

A: The distribution of seats is not a problem because there is no addition to the number of seats. When there are no additional seats, it is basically status quo, unless you can persuade a party to give up (some of its seats) in favour of another BN component party.

Q: In the last general assembly, several speakers spoke in a manner that hurt the feelings of others, including some in Barisan Nasional component parties. How will things shape up this year?

A: We will guide them. They must be aware that when they speak at the assembly, their speeches are also followed and assessed by those outside the hall, including non-Malays. What we say should not hurt the feelings of others.

Q: What is your view on the Umno Youth assembly, which will see the kris raised again this year?

A: It is how you choose to interpret it. It is actually a non-issue if you view it in the context of what the kris means. The kris is not a weapon to signify war or confrontation.It is a cultural symbol symbolising a perjuangan (struggle). And perjuangan doesn’t mean confrontation. Perjuangan doesn’t mean you are against anyone. That’s why I said we are committed to the concept and spirit of Barisan Nasional and to work together to develop our multi-racial country. So it is how you perceive it. I think people are making too much out of it.

Q: How do you view the present Umno Youth leadership?

A: The Umno Youth leadership is capable of representing the aspirations of the younger generation. They have shown that they are willing to face up to anyone on certain issues that may threaten the party. During by-elections, they have given us good co-operation.

Q: Do you think the recent spat among Home Affairs Minister Datuk Seri Radzi Sheikh Ahmad, Perlis Menteri Besar Datuk Seri Shahidan Kassim and Tourism Minister Datuk Seri Tengku Adnan Tengku Mansor will affect public perception about unity among Umno leaders?

A: I don’t think so. But it would be better if there was an image of greater cohesion among the leaders. I think it is incumbent upon us to try to resolve things among ourselves because we are colleagues. So, if we disagree, we should either raise it in cabinet or we should call up each other to work it out.

It's your choice.

Goodbye free time?

So next week I take my block leave (5 days compulsory leave by law). Yay! Off to Chengmai with the parents to drive around in gas-guzzling, air-polluting beasts. I admit it, and I feel slightly guilty about it, but goddamn I love the damn things.

After that, I go to a different department which, under normal circumstances, involves working late. I've gotten word from my inside man that they're currently short-staffed. So yes, GNN, Whoren and the Deeds. I will be joining your ranks in the tired, hungry masses of the entry-level working woman of Malaysia.

Most likely, starting in December, I won't be able to go on MSN (horrors!) or blog (die!). On the other hand, I've decided that I'm not going to wait around for certain people to move out or decide to fix the internet, because even though certain people are in different countries, they insist that the modem stay in their room so that they can have 24-hour access to their computer in KL. From a different country. What I'm getting at is that I will be getting internets on my home machine. Joyous!

So that's the gist of my life's developments. Like you didn't know.